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Doug Macdonald

I haven't seen Gary in many years. We were friends in High School -- we played defence together on the football team-- and knew each other in University --he dated my sister Debbie--but it wasn't until we graduated and started working in the late 70's that I got to know him well. At that time Grande Prairie was a "boom town" with a severe housing shortage. Gary bought a house on 104 Avenue in 1976 and afterwood bought another house on 107 Avenue in 1978. And, he rented me rooms in these houses, along with three or four other people. Gary was very generous. Although he could have charged much more , he divided his mortgage payment by the number of people living in the house ( including himself ) and that was the rent. In addition, he supplied all the furnishings and household items needed at no cost. I lived with him for four years , along with an assortment of roommates -- Ron, Don, Bruce, Mary, Blake and others-- that came and went. Gary ran the house with an "iron hand". He had to , with each of us having our own cleaning duties that we did our best to avoid.He was patient and reasonable as a landlord, and he was also a generous and loyal friend. He had a no nonsense demeanor and a very straight forward way of expressing himself , and he gave practical and honest opinions if you asked him on a variety of topics. Perhaps , most importantly to me , he was fun and interesting to be around. We had big parties at the house several times a year. Gary introduced the idea of a non-smoking party , which is common today but radical at the time. After work we often had group runs of about five miles, with Gary struggling to keep up. Endurance was not his strong suit but he was always willing to give it a shot. Once when we were short of players for a soccer league game I asked Gary to come out...and to my surprise he did without ever having played organized soccer before...and he was good! I left Grand Prairie in 1980 and sometime afterward Gary moved to Sundre. But I always thought back about the good times I had living with him and my other roommates in the two houses. I never really kept in touch with Gary after that period but I always wanted to thank him for those times and his generousity. I am thanking him now. Doug
Tuesday January 2, 2018 at 7:12 pm
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